Coffee and Girl Talk

You wouldn't keep drinking a crappy cup of coffee now would you? So why would you keep thinking about a guy that hurt you and doesn't care about you at all? It just doesn't make sense. But, for some reason, we all do it. But I'm here to tell you that life is to short to drink crappy coffee and cry over boys that don't care. Where is that going to get us besides a nasty taste in our mouth and an ache in our hearts.

Getting over someone isn't easy. Trust me. It's just not. But, the pain of detoxing that person from your memory will all be worth it. At some point this person will simply be a memory in the distance. A part of your past. 

Your past is nothing to fear or hide. Use it and learn from it or you're going to find yourself doing the same exact thing over and over again. I would try and hide from my past as if God didn't already know the sinful being I am. God knows everything. Even the things you try to hide from Him, and yet, He still loves you. 

Ask God to help you through these painful moments. Blast worship music and open up your Bible and study His Word. The more you do this, the easier it will be to conquer the next circumstance that before, would have torn you down. With each passing day, ignoring the text messages, resisting the urge to run back to him, and letting it all go will be that much easier.

Let the past go and see what God will bring to you when you do. It's going to be way better than anything you could have dreamed of, and trust me, it's way better than what was holding you back. Let it all go, move on, and live your life. God will bring you your someone special in His perfect timing.